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I heard that Mrs. Chicky's blog is the place to be on this sunny New England Sunday, so that's where I am. Click on over to check out my temporary digs.

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  1. jenJuly 9, 2007 at 8:01 PM

    you know, i read it and commented and such but still, it's nice to have someone visit your real home while you are housesitting too.

    so hey dude. hi.

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  2. PasiJuly 11, 2007 at 1:18 PM

    it's nice to have someone visit your real home
    I have to agree with that.

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